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Lip Service

Do you tend to tell people what you think they want to hear? Do you say you will call someone when you have no intention of calling? Do you give compliments you don’t really mean? Do you make promises that seem to be true in the moment but fall apart later? If you do any … Read more

You Can Learn To Focus

Janet has a profound ability to focus. She wasn’t born that way. She learned to focus. One day she realized that she was undermining herself every time she got impatient and didn’t finish a job or project. She decided to learn to focus and practiced it consciously every day. Gradually her ability to focus improved … Read more

Religious Arrogance

Dear One we met at a wedding recently and we sat at the same table during the reception. Your blue eyes sparkled with enthusiasm as you spoke of your career. Placed subtly between the lines was your deeper commitment to your religious beliefs. It was somewhat charming although I felt the steel beneath the friendly … Read more

Pettiness

Dear One stop and think for a bit. You tell me you are angry at your friend that you have known for many years. You gossip about her as thought she had done something mean to you. Any yet when you tell me about what you think she did it amounts to nothing. Her friend … Read more

Unrequited Love (Continued 2)

Bob loved Mary but married Susan because Mary wanted to remain friends. Susan did all the social things that Bob liked to do so Bob thought Susan to be a good match even though he didn’t love her. Since it wasn’t Bob’s life choice to question his own motives or examine his feelings he ignored … Read more