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How To Handle A Bully Part Two

Bullies are bullies because they feel helpless deep inside themselves. Most bullies will back down if confronted directly. However some bullies are so fear and shame based that their egos won’t allow them to back down and those bullies can become dangerous. On an intuitive level you know who you can confront and who you … Read more

How To Handle A Bully Part One

Someone told me once that a bully is someone who is afraid and will back down if confronted directly. I don’t know if it’s always true that they will back down, but I believe it’s true that bullies are afraid. So if you are being bullied in some way by someone what should you do? … Read more

Never Give Up

Dear One you are worthy of any and all efforts to free yourself. Never give up on yourself. Yes, I know that growing is difficult. Change is hard. Sometimes we stay in the same uncomfortable circumstances in our lives just because it’s familiar. But do this, Dear One. Face change like a warrior. Look at … Read more

Communication Tip

Dear One it’s important to learn how to say what you want and need in such a way as to leave the possibility for good to happen. All too often we say, “I want this or that,” or “I don’t want this,” or “I don’t want that” without considering how it sounds to our listener. … Read more

Give People A Break

I have thought for a long time that relationships are one of the greatest challenges in life. We are all in the process of coming to realize who we really are as divine beings and to some degree are lacking in wisdom and understanding of ourselves. In other words we are human beings constantly making … Read more