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Infidelity: The Case For Staying Silent

There are times when staying silent about an affair may serve all for the better. Later I will write about the case for lying about an affair. Staying silent is the case for this comment. Because kind and courageous honesty is what I recommend for most situations in life it is difficult to justify dishonesty. … Read more

Infidelity: Another Case For Telling The Truth

The consequences for having an affair can be devastating both for you and for your partner. The temptation for lying or keeping quiet may be strong. There are some compelling things to consider while determining whether you should tell the truth or not. On some level of consciousness your partner already knows of your affair(s). … Read more

Infidelity: Causes

Infidelity can have many causes. First understand that being unfaithful is a symptom of another problem within yourself or within the relationship. To understand the cause you need to examine yourself and your relationship. The following are some of the possible causes. If you were raised in a family where one of your parents was … Read more

Teach Your Children To Trust Themselves

Teach your children to trust their inner spirit and intuition. So many people have come to me over the years with a basic mistrust of themselves. They tell me, “I have make so many mistakes and misjudged people that I no longer trust my own judgment.”  I also hear the phrase, “I don’t know,” all … Read more