Need affair advice from a San Diego and Encinitas therapist? Are you having an affair with a married man or woman? Are you married or in a committed relationship? Do you suspect or know your significant other is having an affair? Or are you not in a committed relationship but questioning why you are having an affair? Any way it is important that you understand the reasons for affairs before you take action. Here are three tips to help you understand yourself and/or your significant other and what action you might consider taking.