To be nice or to be honest. Which is best? I think that depends on your personal objective in life. Do you want a deep connection with those around you or do you want to be seen as nice. Being honest in as kind a way possible can open the door to a depth of understanding and love that can never be achieved by being nice. Sometimes being nice is a betrayal of your own ethics. Sometimes being honest is a guise for cruel behavior. What do you think? Please post your opinion.
Next entry will be a story about something that happened to me recently that challenged me to choose between being honest and being nice.