We all want to experience respect, love, trust, open communication, and a peaceful home life. We all want to be with someone who listens to us and is willing to patiently negotiate through disagreements. We want someone to be there for us even when we are not there for ourselves. We want inspiration and a kind touch. And we don’t want to be alone.
I work with individuals and couples to help them identify the underlying cause of relationship conflict. I believe in the importance of kindness, respect, spiritual connection, and I teach win-win communication skills.
Each of us is responsible for our own happiness. If you don’t like what you are experiencing in your relationships then there is something you can do about it. You can change yourself...how you think, feel, and act…and how you communicate. As hard as you may try you cannot change another. But by changing yourself you can influence others to change themselves.
In ways you may not have considered before you have created your current relationships by how you act and react. Your relationships are a result of and a reflection of what you believe about yourself and what you believe about relationship. These beliefs are called core beliefs and they dominate how you think, feel, and act in all your relationships. By understanding and transforming your self-defeating core beliefs you can change how you think, feel, and act in your relationship to yourself, with your most intimate relationships, and with all others.
You can have more of a voice. You can feel more confident and loving.
You can learn to set more healthy boundaries. You can be released from feeling defensive or sad or afraid or angry or guilty, no longer triggered by those unwanted automatic reactions. You can be more compassionate and rational. And you can learn win-win communication.
If you would like to know more about how you can help yourself I invite you to contact me for a live Zoom session or an in-person session in my office in Encinitas, California. You can also download one of my self-guided workshops like The True Seeker’s Guide To A Better Life or The Call To Adventure or you can listen to my wisdom-filled audios in Life Lessons.
Meanwhile, I am here.
My very best to you, Wendy Hill, PhD.
Your Relationships Are Key to Your Well-Being
Are you struggling in your relationship? Do you have a relationship problem? Dealing with a broken heart? Concerned for your children's happiness? Confused about your or your partner's behavior? Learning to master our relationships is one of the greatest challenges we face in life. The quality of your relationships can determine your happiness and well-being. Healthy relationships help create good physical, spiritual, financial, and emotional lives. Wendy Hill, PhD, certified clinical hypnotherapist, is located in Encinitas, California and uses the wonderful transformative powers of hypnosis and psychotherapy combined to help you achieve healthy relationships. Dr. Wendy specializes in transforming self-defeating communication styles and self-defeating core beliefs that undermine healthy relationships. She has been in practice for over 40 years and is a relationship specialist. She understands how powerful relationships are and how to support healthy relationships. Trained in psychotherapy and core belief transformation, Dr. Wendy is skilled in psychotherapeutic techniques that heal and transform.
Change Yourself and You Change Others
Did you know that by changing yourself you can change others? It's true. By changing your self-defeating core beliefs about yourself and your relationships you automatically change others. All your relationships improve as you become more clear, less reactive, more compassionate, more able to communicate your needs, and more able to set healthy boundaries.
It can be frustrating to watch yourself choose the wrong partner, give yourself away, over please, over control, communicate in ways that don't get the results you want, or continually repeat a non productive pattern over which it feels you have little or no control. Wendy Hill. Ph.D. helps you take control of your life by teaching you new attitudes, behaviors, and communication skills that help break those negative patterns.
Hypnotherapy coupled with psychotherapy breaks through emotional barriers.
There may be times when you feel overwhelmed with emotions that you realize are inappropriate. Yet you may still feel them and act on them. Upsetting emotions like anger, guilt, grief, shame, resentment, jealousy, fear, hurt, and greed can destroy a relationship and destroy your happiness. Hypnotherapy coupled with psychotherapy helps empower you to break through emotional barriers that hold you captive.
It is confusing and upsetting to be in a relationship with someone who does not listen, is intimidating, controlling, or acts out in inappropriate ways. It can be disturbing to be in a relationship where you find yourself constantly arguing or not trusting the other person. Relationship conflict is commonly attributed to patterns learned in the past. Dr. Wendy helps release you from your negative emotional past allowing you to choose healthy fulfilling relationships.
Our childhood experiences program us as to how to be in relationships as adults. This is true especially in our intimate relationships. How we are as husbands, wives, partners, parents, friends, sons, daughters, siblings, in-laws, employees, employers, strangers, and so on are all programmed by the decisions we make when we are little. Our attitudes toward who we choose as our closest intimates can be especially challenging. Dr. Wendy will help you deal with the negative influences of those you knew as a child. This is key to developing healthy adult relationships. She will help you uncover and resolve childhood experiences that impede your ability to flourish in close personal relationships.
In addition to hypnosis and psychotherapy Wendy Hill, PhD teaches win-win communication to individuals and couples. Her special method of using real life situations and role-playing aids in learning on a deep level.
True Client Story
Sally and Daniel were hardly on speaking terms when they came to see me. It seemed that even the smallest incident could set them off. The only thing that was keeping them together was the fact that they had two children. Each hoped hypnotherapy would enlighten the other as to their mistaken ways. After seeing them for several sessions together each agreed to see me separately. At that point both Sally and Daniel were willing to take responsibility for how each contributed to the problem. In their individual hypnotherapy sessions each discovered that their childhood programming had set them up to not only choose each other but to communicate and react in destructive ways. Several sessions later and armed win-win communication skills both Sally and Daniel reconnected in a positive fashion. Through hypnotherapy and win-win communication they saved their marriage.
Begin today to create a new you. If you would like to help yourself have healthier more loving relationships Dr. Wendy invites you to call her for a live Zoom or in-person session. You can also help yourself through one of her self-guided workshops like The True Seeker’s Guide To A Better Life, or The Call To Adventure, or listen to the Life Lessons audios. Meanwhile, I am here.
To learn more about Wendy Hill, PhD, hypnosis, hypnotherapy and how to make better relationships call Wendy Hill, PhD at 760-994-9296.